Recovering Pessimist Part 2

Continued from November 25, 06

Thank you, I really appreciate this help. Can you help me regarding what can I do about things that invlove other people, such as their decisions and actions that effect me. I can’t control someone else, so how do I keep from worrying about what they will do? How does my thoughts affect someone else?

You are always co-creating in your life. This is what is hard to understand. Know that you can’t control others, but your vibrations you send out in the form of your thoughts and feelings, will affect others. And since like vibrations attract like vibrations, then you will know that if you are getting behavior from others that you do not like, you may want to go inside and look at what kind of thoughts and feelings are going out. This is not to beat yourself up. Because that is just more of the same thoughts that create more lower vibrations that go out. Then they will come back, giving you more things to worry and fret about. Can you see how this can compound the situation, and make it even harder to change you vibration?

Yes, so how can I turn my vibration around, stop being a pessimist. Stop that downward cycle?

There is good news, and that is the fact that it works the other way too, the better you feel, the happier you are, the better life works out for you. Like attracts like in this area too. If you can really grasp this Law of Attraction, then you can choose what type of dominant thoughts that you will be thinking. In the beginning of turning your thoughts to positive ones, you might still be getting in your life, stuff you don’t like that was sent out before from previous negative thoughts. That is when it will take some dedication to stay positive. Look for things that you are appreciative of, things that will make you feel better. Also, know that we are always here with you, and if you ask for help, we are there, and can help you feel more love in your heart. Tune into the love that resides deep within you, and know that is who you truly are, the one who wants to experience the joys of life. This is a big focus in your life, so there will be more on this subject, but for now this is enough.